Girl wanted

Still looking for a "guy Friday" and maybe a girl Tuesday.

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One Direction (V)

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Hump Day: Matthias Plucinski

Please rate my blog a 5 here. For some reason I keep falling off the top 10..maybe it's manipulation by the blog owner..but, I know my readers support my blog! 

Rate Me, Rate Him

Guys:

Please rate my blog a 5 here. For some reason I keep falling off the top 10..maybe it's manipulation by the blog owner..but, I know my readers support my blog!

And by the way..rate this guy: I think he's a 5 too! (On a scale of 1-5)

 

In and Out

I was headed home and logged onto Grindr when I was out of my usual neighborhood.  Almost immediately, I got chatted by someone nearby and things went pretty quickly from "hi" to "parking and on my way up."  As he had promised, the front door was open and I walked in. I took the long stairs up one flight and reached his apartment.  That door also, was unlocked.

I open the door and take a step in. "Creepy" I'm thinking. It's dark in there, but my eye was caught by the flickering candle to the  left and a step in that direction, and I could see him, completely naked, bent over on all fours, on the couch in the living room, as we had planned.

I undress as I say hi and as I walk around to the front of the couch, he turns to suck my flaccid cock. As I'm getting hard, I pull out of his mouth and head to his rear, where I place my cock on his ass. I grab the condom that he conveniently placed on the coffee table as he grabs his poppers.

As he sniffs, I unroll and slowly insert my cock into his warm, awaiting ass. Went in pretty easily, so I guess my suggestion that he be lubed and ready was taken seriously. He moans his approval as I withdraw and push back in again. I'm fucking him slowly, until I pick up the pace..and then skin is a-flapping. As I get closer to orgasm I withdraw completely, pull off my condom, and spray my man juice all over him as he turns and strokes himself off.

This was probably the quickest fuck and go that I've ever had.

If You Love Something...

I just want to give a public thank you to Frat Star for his time and his effort in the short time that he was able to write for my blog.

He was, and is an amazing writer - able to put down into words feelings, thoughts and ideas that others simply cannot convey on paper. I think he brought a great perspective to this blog. That of the young, new gay man. Obviously, of course, his journey is unfinished and it would have been incredible for him to be able to share that journey with us. I know writing every day for his previous blog was too much for such an active, young man and I thought that writing once a week would be less stressful to him. But, the guys got priorities..and not only can't you blame him for that, you have to be happy for him too.

To answer some of the questions I received, as per FS wishes, his previous blog posts have been deleted.

I'll miss his input here. But, alas...life moves on.

Just to put it out there..I am still looking for contributors on this blog. I want to have my readers see different perspectives. If you had a now defunct blog or a blog you no longer want to continue, or have a unique perspective (i.e., the young gay guy, the jilted woman, a closet lesbian, a closeted young gay guy) that maybe we'd be interested in hearing from on a weekly basis..let me know. 

Frat Star Fridays! Peace Guys!

Off into the sunset...

I want to say that I've really enjoyed writing for BLM and that he's given me a ton of space (and editorial freedom) to do what I like. However, I'm about to start a job with really long hours and I'll no longer be able to be a contributing writer here. For some of the young people that read my column, a few words of parting advice:

1. Don't chase a relationship. A lot of you write to me asking about relationships, and I usually give the same answer: I'll let you know when I figure this out. I recently met someone really nice -- another reason why I have so little time presently -- but he just got out of a year and a half relationship. Sometimes these things work and sometimes these things falter. Remember that 99% of relationships or people that you chase won't work out, because there's one dude out there that you haven't met yet. Who knows where you'll be in a year from now.

2. Don't be afraid to date around. I think that this is different from being slutty. Recently I've been going on tons and tons of dates with lots of different people. Often, it'll just end up in drinks and a little kissing, but sometimes there's a special dude that you'll want to take home. Be easy and casual, but also don't be afraid to explain what you want. Sometimes that really awesome guy is just around the corner but you haven't even given him a chance yet.

3. Come out of the closet. This is probably one of my biggest, yet frank, compulsions for leaving. I strongly encourage young people to come out of the closet because we won't bite. Not all gay people are promiscuous, terrible monsters who are commitment-phobic and evil. They certainly exist, but there are also wonderful, nice people that want to get married and begin churning out kids by the dozen in strong, loving, monogamous relationships. In order to even get to this step you're going to have to come out. It will be shitty at first, and you will get inappropriately drunk at times. However, it's totally worthwhile. Just do it.

Finally, My Response (V)

If you notice, I rarely respond to my commenters. It's not because I don't read them..it's not because I don't want to..and it's not because I don't care.

It's simply that most of the commenters just want to spew hate and they're just not worthy of my time to type. How many times can I say "you're absolutely wrong", or explain myself so they understand (which they never will) or say simply,  "Fuck you!"

I guess I can't say it as well as it is said here..with sweetness, in song:

Thanks to one of my anonymous readers (apparently the lone nice one) for the suggestion.

Hump Day: Abren

Abren: Philippines