What is it about gay guys?
I would say about 95% of gay guys are not interested in a relationship. They're perfectly happy with casual, random sex. Check out the ads on Craigslist, Manhunt etc. Most don't say they're looking for twilight walks hand in hand on a beach, intelligent conversation and bubbling personalities. They want sex: Fuck me, suck me, pull my hair, nasty, filthy, throw-down sex.
Guys are turned on by erotica: pictures, movies and the like. It's what keeps porn shops and online porn sites thriving. Guys like to see and do.
Women? They read romance novels, watch Lifetime TV..live in a fantasy world where they're Knight in Shining Armour sweeps them off their feet, and has meaningful conversation with them - really listens -and carries them into a bedroom, places them gently on a bed of sweetly perfumed fresh red rose petals and engages in an hours-long marathon of holding, caressing, foreplay and kissing that doesn't necessarily have to end in sex.