Hump Day: Danny

• Name: Danny
• Location: Cape Town, South Africa
• Country: South Africa
• Age: 20
• Gender: Male
• Height: 5'11" (180 cm)
• Weight: 160 lbs (73 kg)

Don't Cry for Me

Yes, I guess I have a past. But some of it is good.

This guy I met years ago..I can't remember exactly where..but it was probably MH, or CL..or some other stupid website with initials. Anyway, this guy was very, very hot. We hung out a few times..and had some great sex. We also really got along.  But I had issues with my relationship at the time..(Ross) and he had a girlfriend at some point which also was on the rocks. (Argentina: Muy Caliente).

A month or so ago, he emails me, just to say hi. He was thinking about me and he and his girl were again, on the rocks. Anyway, he disappeared until this week, when he writes me to say he's single.  I responded: "Single? Oh no you're not! Your mine!"

He laughed at that and hopefully we'll meet soon.

View from The Rear

Often, it seems that guys in my area are from out of town, staying at a fancy hotel in the area. They're typically flight attendants from the UK. I've often chatted with them on Grindr.

On this particular day, some guy chats me and says he's staying at this posh hotel..and he's from the UK. He sends me a slew of hot pics. His ass is just amazing.  He invites me over and tells me to just come up to his room - #602. I tell him I don't just walk into strangers rooms..cause you never know what you're walking into. Maybe it's someone else's room..maybe the guy is a freak. I'd rather chat on the phone or meet in the lobby first.

I arrive at the hotel and enter the lobby.  It's decorated beautifully and I tell him I'm waiting by the hotel store. He tells me he's just "waiting for the lift" and he'll meet me.  I watch as the elevator goes up to the 6th floor, stops, and starts it's way down to the lobby.  The door opens and ..out walks this guy. He's short..I mean, not fidget, midget short..but pretty short - and that's OK. But,. he's kinda "plastic" looking. His face at least. It's kind of hard to describe..anyway..we return to his floor and enter his room.

I walk around the room. It's got two queen sized beds with big white fluffy comforters. I look out the window and it overlooks the gardens and the pool. Nice that a job provides such comforts I tell him.  This is no "Hotel 6".

He lays down on the bed and I pull off my shirt. I tell him we have to be quick as I am expected back at work shortly. He pulls off his shirt, kneels next to me and kisses me. His thick tongue enters my mouth..my chin, my lips..I mean..like this guy is all over my face. Gross!

He takes off his shorts and he's not wearing any underwear. He turns over to show me that hot little ass..yes, it was as billed. I take off my shorts, underwear and he sucks my cock until I'm hard.  He again turns over, and pulls out a condom and lube and I put on the condom while he lubes his ass.

I put my cock at his asshole and push gently. He groans and tells me "please be gentle."  I comply and soon I'm in his tight little ass. He tries to turn his head to kiss me but I nuzzle his neck trying to avoid the torture of the tongue again.

His ass is really very nice..very small, very tight..and while I'm looking down as I'm fucking him, I'm thinking "maybe I'll hang a little and do this ass twice."  Soon, I'm blowing my load in the condom and falling on top of him.

"Hot" he says.
"Yea..sorry I have to run." I reply.

I hit the bathroom and wash up. He gets dressed and thanks me again, telling me he's often in the area because of his airline.

I was really horny..and it's been a long time since I've fucked someone. Nice to get a room with a view.

Role Reversal (V)

Hump Day: Alejandro

• Name: Alejandro
• Location: Miami, FL
• Country: United States
• Age: 18
• Gender: Male
• Height: 5'10" (177 cm)
• Weight: 150 lbs (68 kg)

New Situ-Asian

I saw this profile on Grindr and the body was just amazing. I chat him and say hello. He seemed pretty close to me, so you never know. He responds that he's heading to a gym near me after leaving work early. We chat a little more and he sends me some nice pics.

"Why don't you come meet me at the gym? he asks.
"Well, I could, it really is just a few block from me. But, I did work out already today." I respond
"Well, at least I could check you out in the steam room." He says.

So, I jump in my car and meet him in the parking lot. We walk in, and he hands the girl at the desk his card and a guest pass for me. We head to the locker and he immediately gets undressed..getting ready for the shower.

"I thought we're working out?" I ask.
He laughs. "I thought you were just here for the steam room" as he gets dressed again.

It did give me a second to look at his body. He's Asian..and has a lean, very tight and toned body. You can see the definition in his abs, his arms and he has a small, in shape little butt too.


We head out to the gym floor and we kind of head out separate ways. I'm working a little on the machines, he's using the free weights and every so often we get together and talk. We match notes on working out and talk about our jobs. He's also a professional and has a great sounding job. Although he's working out at the gym near me, he lives about 20 minutes away..

After about 45 minutes of working out and talking, we do indeed head to the locker room again. He again undresses and so do I. Then we enter the steam room where we both sit down and again, talk, while we're obviously also checking each others bodies out.

I find out he lives with a boyfriend, who is also Asian.

"What would your boyfriend say if he knew you were here with me?" I ask.
"He'd say "Let's play!" he responds and laughs.
"Oh, so, you guys are looking for a third I guess."
"Yea, I defintiely think he'd be into you." he says.

After a few minutes of chit-chat, we both head to the showers to cool off, then to the sauna.  It also was empty on this quiet day.  I briefly brush his chest with my hand complimenting him on his taut tight chest. He does likewise, commenting on my body and amazing, dark tan. He leans in and gives me a great, light kiss and our tongues flicker in each others mouths. Soon, we're also grabbing each others cocks and I'm checking out and rubbing his hot little ass under his towel.


Again, it's getting hot, and we head to our mutual showers, which were located next to each other. As we're washing up to leave, he boldly pulls aside my shower curtain and enters my shower stall. I'm shocked and whisper "you can't do this!" as he rubs my body and kisses me. Again, I say "you can't do this!" as I grab his ass and kiss him back. But, his visit was brief and he returns to his stall.

We get dressed and exchange emails outside. Over the weekend, we also exchange a few emails back and forth.

Maybe this is the type of situ-Asian I could get used to.

Bosom Buddies

I spoke to this guy on Grindr the other day. Pic is pretty nice.seems like a nice guy. 5'11", 180, lean to muscular. Some hair on his chest. He's looking for a regular buddy, likes the fact that I'm married and is willing to be my "go to guy" whenever I need it.

The next day, on my way to work, he chats me, asks where I am and what I'm doing. Next thing I know, I'm on my way there for a morning quickie. In his chats, he's mentioned that he loves his nipples played with..and that's cool with me. Also, he's totally into bottoming, but..he tells me "not on the first date". I'm cool with that. I like an old fashioned type of guy ;)

I get there, his apartment is small but nice, clean and decorated nicely. He's in his underwear, no shirt. Nice chest, a bit hairy, and a nice body.  We hug, kiss, and I slide my hand beneath his underwear to feel his nice, firm ass..and it really is firm and nice!

He guides me over to the bed, slides my pants and underwear down and gets on his knees and begins working on my cock, sucking away. I reach down with one hand and grab his chest, brushing his erect nipples..

Now these nipples were..lets say..big- like...not pencil eraser big..BIGGER - LONGER! It was OK..I remember Ross used to like his nipples played with, but, his were uh, normal sized. This guy was super-sized.

Well, he continues to suck and I continue to play with his nipples, tugging..rolling..and he takes my other hand and places it on his other nipple..apparently to encourage me to play with both at the same time. Good thing I'm ambidextrous!

I pull him up to me onto the bed, where we're now laying. He lays next to me and  we're jerking each other off..I'm playing with his ass...I'm rubbing those inch-sized nips...he's moaning...

He sees I'm close to cumming and says "shoot in my mouth" which I do. Then back to nips and jerking..and he unloads on his chest.


The guy's nice. I like the fact that although he was "tempted" that he said he didn't want to fuck on the first date. He's masculine...excellent body...professional..clean....


He's nice.. normal.. clean.. safe.. professional.. masculine.. but those nipples! I don't know that I'm like totally into these long sticks on his chest...

I guess I'll have to give it time. At least until a second date!

Not Gay (V)

Hump Day: Derek

• Name: DEREK
• Location: Springfield, MA
• Country: United States
• Gender/Age: Male/ 23
• Height: 6' (182 cm)
• Weight: 195 lbs (88 kg)

Happy V Day!

For some of us, this day is full of fun, frolicking and fucking. Valentine's Day is for lovers..or people in love.

For those of you who feel left out..consider yourself a member of the club..because here..at Bi Like Me, YOUR LOVED!

 

Reader Letter

Another reader asks for advice:

hello.

i stumbled across your blog by accident, and since then ive read some of your posts. i find theyre very thought-provoking, and while my situation isnt exactly like yours, im happy that i found this blog. theres no one i can turn to about my bi-ness, but at least now through you i can learn a few lessons on what and what not to do.

i dont agree 100% with what your doing. i personally think you wont be able to hide 'it' forever and eventually its going to come back and bite. but thats your personal decision. you have your views, i have mine.

I have a question. 

im a 15 year old male. (did you know you have readers that young?) my name is XXXXXXX
as a kid in high school i may look normal, but underneath im a huge mess of emotions and tangled thoughts. The fact that i notice both hot girls and guys doesnt really concern me; ive already accepted thats who i am. what i am concerned about however is my future. i think i can assume that you have regrets, guilts, and things you would have done differently. do you have any suggestions so that i dont screw up my future relationships/life?

 
i actually already took a half of a first step out of the closet. i already told my parents that im bi. that was probably the second hardest thing i have done in my life (1st was enduring 3 years of relentless bullying, 3rd to telling a girl i liked her). they were stunned, then didnt believe it and said that i was too young to truly know that. i said sure but i know deep inside that this is what i am. i have to say though that my parents are so amazing; they didnt freak out and pour holy water over my head and tell me to pray or anything like that. they said that if it was true, then they would be happy for me no matter who i end up with. im glad they at least half understand.

besides them however, no one else knows. (oh wait thats not true anymore is it?) i find that at this age it isnt affecting me much because instead of lustful thoughts i concentrate on video games, school, normal teen stuff. But i do think about it from time to time. Like i mentioned earlier, ive had a crush on a girl before, i havent had a crush on a guy before, but im still not sure of what im looking for. they both appeal to me in a weird, twisted way. my fantasies are all over the place; sometimes girly where i would just want to cuddle, but sometimes more dominant and aggressive like having sex. after reading some psychology articles however, i think this is normal for someone like me. but anyway that was just a little background on me.

i know your busy, so thanks for taking the time to read this. 

I've received letters like yours in the past..and I'll give you the same advice I gave them:

You're young..very young..almost too young to be concerned with making decisions on how you are going to live the rest of your life -sexually. Take the time..don't jump into anything so quickly. Date, make friends. You will see over time what you are into. I suppose some have made this decision as young as 15, but for others, it takes much longer. It's great that you have the support of your parents, but I agree with them..use the time you have to your advantage.

As far as screwing up your future relationships I think being honest is best. Once you date one person (girl or guy) be committed to that relationship. Put your all into it. Be faithful. When that relationship doesn't work for you, then you will move on, and find another. 


Once you've had exclusive relationships, some with men, some with women, I think the picture will become clearer. It's what I didn't have growing up. I never experienced a relationship with a man, and now, I'm stuck doing so secretly.


It's like riding a bike: Practice makes perfect.

Two and a Half Men (V)

It's quickly becoming one of my favorite shows. I started watching Two and a Half Men right when Charlie Sheen went off the deep end and they hired Ashton Kutcher to replace him. Then I started watching the re-runs with Charlie and they are hilarious.

CBS advertises the show as "A hedonistic jingle writer's free-wheeling life comes to an abrupt halt when his brother and 10-year-old nephew move into his beach-front house." But, this is a little misleading. Yes, the writer (originally Charlie) had his brother and 10 year old move in with him..but, abrupt halt? Jesus! It would have been incredible if Charlie's life was any more "free-wheeling". Often, he is seen fall down drunk, throwing up, hung-over and hardly ever without a beautiful babe naked by his side. Hey, this sounds a lot like Charlie Sheen's real life!

Then Ashton's "Walden" takes over Charlie's house after his untimely death  (Charlie died when a scorned lover pushed him in front of a moving subway car causing his body to explode) and the show has seen even higher ratings. It has often been implied and flaunted that Walden is, well, hung like a moose!

A recent episode shows Walden dancing naked..as he often is on the show. Now, Ashton Kutcher never did anything for me..but after watching him on Men I've certainly changed my mind. My admiration didn't go without some benefit (see the picture Ashton graciously took for this blog ;) ). Ashton is tall, lean, and really a very handsome Jesus reincarnate.  Soon he shaves and cuts his hair for a cleaner look.

But, if he's really hung like they say, nobody is really looking at all that hair anyway, are they?

Hump Day: Gregory

• Name: Gregory
• Location: Chicago, IL
• Country: United States
• Gender/Age: Male/ 18
• Height: 5'11" (180 cm)
• Weight: 145 lbs (66 kg)

Crossing the Line

I'm at work..minding my beezewax..working..and I get an email..from someone I don't recognize..and it's to my work email address.


He uses my real first name..and it says:

"Hey _____." It's me from Grindr. When are you free?"

I'm confused. I don't know who this is. I never, ever (that I remember) use my work email for extra-curricular activities. No one would email me there.  What do I do? Answer the email? Play dumb? Ignore it?

I chose option #3..ignore. Maybe it's someone I confided in...gave them my real name and occupation. I suppose..in the web-based world, it's pretty easy to find someone out there if you know a few important facts about them.


I'm still a little freaked though.

Quickie Jerk Off

A guy emails me on Adam. He unlocks his pics and tells me he's home, alone, naked, in a bath robe, and he wants to jerk off with another guy. We make some quick plans and I'm on my way.

I park at his house, head to the side door and he's there to greet me, just as advertised..naked in a bathrobe. But his hair isn't the jet black that was in the pics, he now has blond streaks in it. Anyway, we head downstairs and he has the TV on in the den with some stupid program on it, and a laptop sitting on the couch, with a video of some guy jerking off - a very hot guy I might add..even though all I can see are his legs, chest and privates, it's a hot video. He sits down next to the laptop, undoes his robe and takes out his cock. I sit next to him, pull down my pants and we begin our jerk off session.

Now things ended as planned and expected..there wasn't much of anything else other than us pulling our puds, and touching legs...but, after I cleaned up and left, I kept wondering about that video.  He mentioned it was from XTube, or UPorn or something...but I couldn't help but wonder if maybe his laptop was aimed at his new subject...is that possible? Can you actually view a porn on line while taking video of someone?

I drove home all the time thinking and wondering and worrying...that maybe this guy is just capturing other guys on his couch jerking off and putting them online for money.  I know I should have thought of that while I was there and made him turn the computer off or shown me that there was no camera facing us...but I guess I had my mind on other things.

306 (V)

Fuck Me!!!!

I'm pulling out my hair! I've checked the help forums, I've emailed some people, I've tried to research the issue..but I don't know how to fix it!

My blog is not "updating" - yea, you see the post here, but "feedburner" and my blog roll shows my blog hasn't been updated in over a week. It pisses me off, because my some of readers don't know that I'm still here.. If anyone can help me out, I'D REALLY APPRECIATE IT!!!!

Hump Day: Dennis Pedersen