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Star 6: Disappointing
Well, I finally met up with Star 6 from Grindr. We were planning on meeting on a Thursday, he had off on those days. The first Thursday, work kept me occupied, so we weren't able to meet. We had again planned for the following Thursday. But, work happen to bring me into his neighborhood.Some background: He emails me on occasion. Really nice..always polite. How my day is..what's going on. How the weekend was...looking forward to meeting. He's Asian.. says he's 41, and works in a gym. He doesn't have many pics - just a chest pic and 1 naked side pic but - he works in a gym! How bad can he be?!
When I logged on Grindr that day, he popped up with a message. Funny, he just happen to be off work that day..an unscheduled day off.
"Lucky you" I said.
"Yea, be luckier if you could come by. You're so close!"
"Well, I may be able to. How's about 12?" I said.
"That works!"
After my appointment I called him. He gives me his address and I'm there in about 15 minutes. I walk up to his apartment and he opens the door. This guy..doesn't exactly look like a gym person..I mean, he has clothes on..he looks stocky, but, it could be muscle. He's also scruffy..little beard scruff - not Ryan Seacrest scruff, not Brad Pitt scruff, not even Ryan Gosling scruff. And believe me, I would have settled for any of those.
No, this guy was like..messy hair, too lazy to shave scruff. And as Asian guys go..he obviously doesn't have the greatest of facial hair. So it's not even..wasn't attractive. But, how do you leave when someone is inviting you in.
"Thanks for coming" he says as he motions me to the couch.
He takes my coat from me as I was about to place it next to me and disappears with it, going down the hallway to hang it in the closet. Dammit! So much for a quick escape. Shit! also left my cell phone in the pocket. Now I can't use "the important email" excuse!
"Yea, worked out well" I lie. "But, I have to get back to work shortly." I lie again..setting the groundwork for a reason to leave.
He sits next to me on the couch and we chat some more. After a few minutes he leans in and kisses me..tongue and all.
"There, now you don't have to be so nervous." he says.
"Was I nervous?" I ask..I wasn't nervous..just anxious to figure out how to leave.
He ends up taking off my shirt and I reach under his. Yea, just as I thought..this guy is not a trainer. He's completely smooth..but, he's got quite a bit of excess body fat. He's not obese..not even fat..just soft. And I don't like soft.
He gets on his knees..unbuckles my pants. I pull down his sweats to expose his small cut cock. I'm not a size queen..don't really care..but, it's just adds insult to injury at this point.
He sucks me..then pulls me up..grabs my hand to lead me into he bedroom. Well, this is gonna happen apparently, I might as well close my eyes, let it happen and hurry out.
I get undressed and so does he. Ugh..
He lays on my chest..continues to suck me and then kisses me me too. Ugh..
I'm rubbing his ass..and chest..Ugh..
Think! Think! Ryan Seacrest...Brad Pitt..Ryan Gosling...
He's pretty rough with my equipment..and I take his hands off my balls before they pop..
Sucking me pretty hard..
"I'm gonna cum" I tell him..
and I blow it in his mouth.
He gets up, grabs some tissues and gives me some too. I get up and ask for the bathroom. I go in..wash my mouth out..pee..and return to see him almost dressed.
"Guess you gotta go" he says.
"Yea..work ya know."
I get dressed, and he shows me to the door.
"So, we still going to do Thursday?" He asks.
"Uh, yea..should be good." I say (lie).
Now I just have to do a leap day..not leap year.
7 comments:
Don't be an ass, and lie. I mean, you can be agreeable while you're there so things don't get even more awkward, but as soon as you're liberated, send him a message and just say you don't think you're a good match.
At least give him time to set up something else for Thursday, what a pity to waste a day off just and then get flaked out on.
Man up dude.
Yeah. Jack's probably right. Best to cancel that meet rather than stand the guy up. Then again, maybe he's thinking the same thing about you? lol.
Seriously, though, isn't that the worst? You finally meet a guy, he's not up to your standards and you don't have the guts or the opportunity to run out the door?
I've had two meets in my life that were not only not up to my standards, but yucko type guys that I wouldn't have touched had I the guts to back out of the situation. Makes for a good story after all these years, though.
BLM,
On behalf of all the guys that do not have underwear model abs...thanks for sharing some sex with the disappointing guy. There are not really many toned guys out there. Fewer and fewer as you get away from 21 years old.
If you didn't click mentally, hard to go on. Either cancel the meeting or follow through and enjoy the sex.
I make it a point to say before meeting that "if not a match...it's okay". Life is too short to deal with someone who's not honest about their body stats. I also agree with anon that it does get harder to find guys who are toned after 21 but, not that hard either. We all know that drill when it comes to gay sex, if you want the younger and or firm, spend 30-60 min a day to keep yourself in shape and attractive. Make it a priority and it will happen.
BlkJack
I wonder, all those times that dudes do not get back to you when you are so interested in them.. things that make ya go hmmmm
I wonder, all those times that dudes do not get back to you.
I think a lot of that is that so many guys are just scared to death of the whole situation- mostly just about being found out.
I've replied to a number of Craiglist m4m ads over the years. The most recent ad being a guy that just wanted someone to jack off with. As with that ad, the vast majority I get no response to.
Most guys seem to be really scared of their homosexual desires being found out. It's one thing to post an ad, and there's a certain release and thrill in that alone. It's another thing entirely to follow through with it.
You need to practice candor. What would have been wrong with telling him that you just didn't feel like having sex with him just then?
This is, after all, someone you had only barely met. A few emails count for nothing. This is your own body in its most intimate parts.
Granted, lust often seems to take you quite far very fast with someone you really find attractive, but that wasn't present here. I don't understand your pretending to Mr. Softie that it was.
I have never had sex within anyone I hadn't known for at least four months. No regrets.
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