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Monday, August 20, 2012

My Anniversary

So, another year goes by...and it's again, my blog anniversary.

It's a love hate relationship we've got going here. Some of you love me, some of you hate me..and I have to say..the feeling is quite mutual.

It's the first year that I have to say: I haven't always been totally happy with this blogging thing.  The flack I get and the nasty comments are just taking it's toll. Some days I'm on the brink of packing it in..and then, I reconsider.

What keeps me here? Well the "politically correct" answer would be "my readers" and that's the answer I've given in the past...and it was true in the past.

But this year, it's all about me...What keeps me here is the ability to put my thoughts down and get them out of my head. For the most part, it's my form of therapy.

I do appreciate you guys tho..well, you know which one's of you I appreciate.  I really think that having Titty Tuesday is a bright and new idea to this blog..and I'm hoping that will continue. I would like to ad to this blog by having a new "Boy Friday" - takes additional pressure off me and give us another voice to hear.

And..if I could celebrate in any way..it would be in that bathtub with that cute guy (Pick one!).

9 comments:

Anonymous August 20, 2012 at 10:44 AM  

BLM,

Thank you for your blog. To many more wonderful years.

Loyal Reader

Girl Tuesday August 20, 2012 at 11:32 AM  

Happy Anniversary, BLM!!! I am so glad to know you, and I'm loving being a part of your blog. I am happy to know that this blog has been therapy for you. The only reason it should exist is for you to get something out of it. I hope to still be around to celebrate the next one with you!

drew August 20, 2012 at 11:39 AM  

This blog is all about YOU. You don't really care about the readers! It's part of your narcissistic personality.

Tristan August 20, 2012 at 12:09 PM  

BLM - I don't really believe it is a love hate relationship you have going. I mean sure, no doubt there are some arseholes out there who are incapable of open-mindedness to any degree and thrive on attacking what they either don't understand or what they can't accept in themselves. However, I suspect for the most part, the people who come here occasionally (me) or regularly (others), enjoy what you have to offer and also enjoy the conceptual whirlpool you throw them into.

I suspect on a general day-to-day level, you are a decent guy who is trying like everyone else to live this hell-ride we call life. Your situation however, call it your lot or the cards you were dealt or call it your choice as I would, I have no doubt is a struggle to some degree for you.

I understand that you are trying to get the crap out of your head but I don't understand why you need to make the most private part of your life public and then get down when others attack your perspective. Well, we both know what i am talking about.

You have a good blog and you raise some interesting points and you also post some fun stuff as well. You do a good job of this and so I think most would want you to stay around and therefore if you have to express the way you do then you'll just have to cop it sweet.

This is only my second comment to you, quite different to the last one, which I meant although regret the intensity with which I delivered it. Yes, apparently we all have our bad days. Anyway, I still may not agree with that certain aspect but from a Gay guy to a Bi guy, I believe you should stick around.

Anonymous August 20, 2012 at 3:15 PM  

Happy Anniversary. Keep going if it's fun and it makes you happy, otherwise there's enough shit to deal with in life.

Queer Heaven August 21, 2012 at 9:35 AM  

Happy Blogaversary! Glad you are continuing to blog. I do not always agree with your posts.... but, like you said it is YOUR blog. I think all bloggers run into those nasty comments. Forget about them and just do YOUR thing!

Narcissius August 21, 2012 at 10:43 AM  

Happy birthday!

Larry Johnson August 21, 2012 at 4:48 PM  

Thanks for the blog. I don't always agree but it is your blog which l get something out of. Keep it going. Happy birthday. Can i have both guys in the tub? It maybe crowded but the closer the better.

Hetero-Challenged August 21, 2012 at 7:56 PM  

I remember reading you when you first started out. =)

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