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Don't Cry for Me
Yes, I guess I have a past. But some of it is good.This guy I met years ago..I can't remember exactly where..but it was probably MH, or CL..or some other stupid website with initials. Anyway, this guy was very, very hot. We hung out a few times..and had some great sex. We also really got along. But I had issues with my relationship at the time..(Ross) and he had a girlfriend at some point which also was on the rocks. (Argentina: Muy Caliente).
A month or so ago, he emails me, just to say hi. He was thinking about me and he and his girl were again, on the rocks. Anyway, he disappeared until this week, when he writes me to say he's single. I responded: "Single? Oh no you're not! Your mine!"
He laughed at that and hopefully we'll meet soon.
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Good Luck with your reunion!
Like you I'm a married, bisexual male with an daughter in college. I'm a new reader and have been looking at earlier posts.
I'm writing in response to posts you wrote after a medical check up at the end of December. Both have a lot of resonance with me.
In my fifties (I'm sixty four), I started having the same concerns. I would forget names, and losing extra weight got harder and harder. I'd had an encyclopedic memory and could lose ten pounds by drinking less and cutting carbs. Like you I worked out or swam five days a week.
I got the same response you did, basically don't worry. Things didn't improve and got worse. Depression and erectile dysfunction to name but two symptoms.
I was distracted with treatment for skin cancer and a congenital malformation of the coronary artery. Both of which are fixed.
Finally last summer I sat down with my internist and we had a long session discussing all my symptoms. After a few minutes he laughed and said if you were a woman I would diagnose menopause. I heaved a sigh and asked for a full hormone screen and workup.
He ordered it and ten days later called to tell me that my thyroid was under functioning, my testosterone levels were the same as an old woman's, and most of the other hormones were out of balance. We started hormone replacement therapy.
After five months of treatment my sexual function and performance is much improved, my metabolism is better, I've regained muscle and lost fat. I'm happier, more active and my memory is better.
You'll get a lot of resistance from your Docs, but you might want to keep an eye on your hormone levels going forward.
This isn't exactly germane to your post, but you're free to post it if you think others might benefit.
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