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Apparently, Ross left last week and went out of town. He went to spend a few days with this new guy. They went mountain climbing...they had fun...a good time was had by all. Great.
I am happy for him, I mean, since I've resigned myself to not being with him myself, shouldn't someone else be entitled? Isn't he entitled? Certainly...I do wish him all the happiness in the world..but, I can't help but feeling some uncomfortableness when he's telling me how much fun he's having with this guy. But, I do appreciate that I'm one of the only people he can share this stuff with.
I asked if he got fucked by this guy..and he says no. I don't doubt it..Ross was never ready for a cock in his ass...and although we did it a few times, he never really became comfortable as a bottom.
I've resisted sharing my stories, guys I've met and hookups with Ross...for right now. But, if I ever need to make him feel bad..I have a few stories I can tell him.
8 comments:
Where can I find the back story between you and Ross?
You keep bringing him up but as a new reader I don't know the background.
At least he is being honest with you.
There are many posts about Ross..start with http://bilikeme2.blogspot.com/2009/08/real-love.html
DONE!
Ross still likes you as a friend. He wanted a friend his age, so all you can be is a friend and listen. If he asks about your activities, you have to be honest to a degree (need to know basis.) You will survive, not fun, but it will be fine.
We married Bi guys are into the no strings attached sex. I've seen on one guys profile, "There are always strings." He is right...we have to have sex with men, because we need it. When we have it, there is an attachment...because there is. There will always be a string between you and Ross. Ross knows it too.
The anonymouses (anonymice??) have this about right, I think. Just maintain the friendship with Ross, and don't allow yourself to get bothered by the fact that he doesn't want to go back to making out with you.
You two care deeply about each other, and that should be enough. If you really "wish him all the happiness in the world," and I think you do, then why not let him tell you about that happiness, and even let yourself enjoy the sharing?
Jealousy is a green-eyed monster, but you are smart enough to take control and defeat it.
Live and let live, and move on. There will be others for both of you I'm sure, but don't make a contest out of it. [Maybe he feels that this is what you've done to him??? In between times with him, he had to listen to you about other guys???] Who knows--but let it go. It went as far as it can go, and now it's where it is. Take it from there with no drama.
Also, I try to vote for you at least once a week. I wish PLU Blogs made it a bit easier to vote, but what ever. One of them also limits the number of times you can vote within a certain time, I forget which one.
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