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Super Day
Some Monday's, like the song says, get me down. It's real hard getting up so early (5:30am) to start the gym again after the weekend. I don't mind work..actually..I happen to love going to the office and working..cause there's really no one looking over my shoulder..like now..when I'm writing for my blog. :)Anyway, some weeks, things just don't click with other guys. Grindr, Manhunt, CL, all a bunch of losers/bullshitters, etc. This Monday, I start work, and log onto Grindr while I'm multitasking. I get a message from some guy who I have chatted with before, but as usual, it ended up with nothing. He's 29 years old (a great age I think for me), 6'1" (nice height), 165 lbs (excellent! lean!) He's got a face pic on Grindr (I obviously don't) and he's got a great smile and looks very hot.
We chat again and he says he's around tonight. Gives me his number and address. Tells me he's looking for a boyfriend, I tell him that I'm married but I'm open to a long term thing with a guy. We plan on meeting..and taking it from there.The guy seems very picky, and even admitted to being so. But, I guess so am I. What I liked about him was a conversation we had..after he asked me over..he asked what kinda wine I drank. He planned on buying a bottle to "break the ice". I thought that was sweet. What I know about wine can fit into a thimble, and I'm not a drinker..but I'm willing to learn
I guess Monday's don't have to be so bad. Yea never know what a new week will bring.
3 comments:
Best to keep an open mind...if you are both picky, don't end it just because someone wears green socks.
I personally think you should look for a married guy- both of you in the same boat.
Think it over buddy
I'd agree with the married guy thing, being you're married. Most of my best hook ups were with married guys because we always had a mutual understanding, and we were always the most comfortable with each other. [I often wonder what's happened to a lot of them…]
The odd thing about it is although we always had good understandings and good sex, eventually it always ended, and I'm not sure why. [I guess one way or the other, it always got to be hard to juggle both of our schedules. Plus always paying for a motel room gets to be sticky…]
Perhaps expecting a long term closeted relationship is harder than we think.
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