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Monday, November 28, 2011

Hottest Sex Ever

I called a guy I was chatting with on Grindr, at his urging. I was reluctant at first, because, well, first, it means I have to find some alone time at work, step out or something, and also, the first time I called someone from Grindr they asked how much I would pay him for sex. When I told him not only wouldn't I pay, and I wouldn't bother to charge him either. ;) That ended that conversation.


This other guy seemed nice. He's married, 27 years old, 5'11" and 160 lbs. Little by way of pics, so I'm hesitant, but I call.  We chat a little about different things, our marriages, when we knew we were into guys, our experiences, and past relationships.

"What was the hottest sex you ever had?" he asks.
"Listen, I'm not into phone sex. If you've got your cock in your hands, and are looking for me to talk to you to get off, I don't want to be involved." I say.
"No" he laughs. "Just asking. Want to know. I mean, yea, I've got my cock in my hand, but this isn't about phone sex. I've had my cock in my hands all day." he says.
"Well to me sex is only great if you care about someone. I've had lots of sex with lots of guys...the hottest sex wasn't necessarily because of the what we did, but how we got there." I explain.

"I used to date a guy. We dated for over 2 years, and broke up about a year ago. We were, and still are very good friends, worked out together, lunches, dinner, and we went away a lot together." I explained to him the situation, the guy my readers all know as Ross.


"The hottest sex we had was when we went away somewhere. It was probably the first time we were away, without anyone else, other people that worked with him. I forget the place, Indiana, Wyoming, Tennessee...it didn't matter..but, it was a place that nobody knew us, nobody recognized us. We could act and do what we wanted, and nobody would ever know except him and I." I went on...

"We checked into our hotel, and it was late, so we changed into shorts, and we quickly headed to dinner. We picked out a big round table booth in the back of the restaurant, ordered our drinks and proceeded to get totally wasted as we talked, ate and laughed.  The waitress kept coming over, bringing us more drinks and we kept drinking. We talked and were at ease with each other..comfortable, having a great time. We were sitting close..close enough that our bare legs could touch. Sometimes our arms touched..but, more than the physical touching was the mental and emotional connection that was made that night."

"We actually couldn't finish our drinks at the restaurant and got "to go cups"..which was kinda funny. We took a cab back to our hotel and spent our first full night next to each other in bed, making out, having sex and laying incredibly close till morning."

I continued: "The best sex I ever had began in public in that restaurant and continued hours later in a hotel room next to someone I really cared about."

"Wow" he said. "That's incredible!."

Yes it was.



8 comments:

Anonymous November 28, 2011 12:14 PM  

that's really nice....im touched. by the way, loved your blog.

Anonymous November 28, 2011 12:38 PM  

BLM, hot sex like you described will come again. It will be different, and you will still have the Ross memory, but it will happen again.

Anonymous November 28, 2011 5:01 PM  

BLM: Ross set some pretty high bar for you, it's the standard by which all your encounters are measured. You could look for a long time and not find an equal to that 2 year timeframe.

I think you should swallow your pride and reach out to Ross again. But this time with less demanding requirements . . . that's the tradeoff to making it work. I'm not sure if you are willing to make yourself vulnerable again to him -- but it would be worth it for the "hottest sex ever."

bob November 28, 2011 7:17 PM  

I'll dare to say it was that good because you were away in a hotel, relaxed and horny--totally removed from the everyday distractions of what you might ordinarily encounter. A romantic get away, simple as that. Glad you had a good time with great memories, but don't sell yourself short. There's more out there--you'll see.

Anonymous November 29, 2011 8:02 AM  

and the best part was that it was with zero guilt.. how I envy you to be able to find the time to chat with someone on grinder about hot times and how you were able to go to some place and have great sex with someone you love and not have to worry if you will be seen or known and can live the life you really want to live... jealous!!

Anonymous November 30, 2011 9:47 PM  

I think that is a great, hot story. I would love to have a guy to do that with. Maybe I do, but not sure yet.
BTW, I have read your blog for months and until recently kind of thought of you as a little too far out there for my taste. However, I recently have had an unbelievably hot long distance relationship with a married guy in the NYC area, and I am absolutely stricken. I'm a convert...love you and your blog.
Thanks.

Anonymous December 2, 2011 1:27 AM  

Hey BLM. Name is Mark here. I've been following your blog for about 6 months now. I just want to thank you for your postings and your honesty. The funny thing is, I was COMPLETELY you about 10 years ago. I went a different route though - no judgement believe me. I got 'caught' - intentionally in a subliminal way now that I look back.

It was tough. I went through hell, as did my ex-wife. 'Hurt' is a two way street, in more ways than I think we understand, until we've been through it.

I did end up meeting the man of my dreams. We celebrated our 7 year anniversary this year. Of course we live in a backward ass State that will probably never recongize our commitment, but it's there in our hearts. I read your postings about Ross, and like others have said, don't give up. I'm living my dream and couldn't be happier.
Good luck!
Mark

Jared January 11, 2012 9:33 PM  

Pretty hot writing there.

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