It's Settled

I guess we all know the stereotypes of gay guys.  We've all made jokes, or noticed a guy that just is acting "gay".  But, we might as well just get some of them down on paper so it's all out there.

All Gay Men are Effeminate: Unfortunately, many media outlets portray gay men as overly effeminate. Think Jack from Will & Grace.  Is there any question whether he is straight or not?  But, as with the mannerisms of heterosexuals, the degree of masculinity varies amongst gay guys too. The belief that all gay men desire to be women or are feminine is merely a generalization. Those within the gay community are just as diverse as any other group.
I don't think I give off the impression of being overly effeminate.  I play sports, I can be a guys - guy..and oh yea, I'm married.

Gay Men Are All About Sex: Often, people associate gay men with sexual addiction. However, the majority of gay individuals are no more sexually active than heterosexuals. Many gay men visit bars, clubs or the internet in an effort to find sexual partners, however just as many seek long term relationships in the same places.

I for one, have been looking for that long term relationship with another man.  It's hard to find..so, in the mean-time, a little sex can't hurt, huh?

All Gay Men Are Great Dancers: Yea, we've all see the guys on the dance floor, boogying down to the hottest songs like Denny Terrio (look it up), arms in the air (!) spins, the works.  But, hey, I've met many gay/bi men who are equally uncomfortable dancing on a dance floor.

This past week, I was at an affair..and I had to be begged to dance. I am not comfortable dancing..and don't enjoy it.  You wont catch me with my hands in the air ..unless of course it's the chicken dance.