Things haven't changed much in the dating scene since I've been away. There are the same guys (really the SAME guys!) looking for the same, innocuous, strings-free, nasty, dirty sex. No relationships...no commitments, nothing.
Funny, there was this guy I use to see on the sites, and he chatted me up pretty recently since I went back on. All of a sudden, he was into meeting, gave me his number. He told me he wanted me to fuck him, and fuck him hard. "I'm not really looking for that" I told him. "I''m kinda looking for a relationship, a buddy, someone to have a long term things with."
"That's cool, totally. I'd be into that too." he responded. Hmm..maybe we have a connection here I thought.
Later that day, I see him online again. This time, in a room with cams. He puts on his cam and he's jerking off. Hot body, amazing cock. Then he's getting verbal..sounds ..rough, slapping his ass...
"Just so you know, I'm not really into the aggressive shit." I explain. Seems like all guys are into rough, aggressive sex. "I'd love to find someone to make out, lay together, more gentle, fun, sensual sex." I tell him.
"Cool. I can do that." he says.
Then I see he takes out this, maybe a 12, 13 inch glass dildo. Inserts it into his ass as he moans and groans. Hot? Yea..I admit I didn't turn off the cam. But, someone I want to hang with and have a relationship with? Don't think so.