I got a few emails from some guys (always the anonymous commenters) who say I should stop dating guys. That it's hard enough out there for gay guys without us so called "bi" guys messing things up. That's funny.
Statistics show that 10% of the population is gay. As of 2009, the world population was estimated to be 6.798 billion. In the United States, the population is 307,958,000, which makes the gay population approximately 31,000,000. Does it matter that I have a relationship with one of those guys? Or even over a period of time, 40 of those guys? Does that affect you so adversely?
Aren't you being a bit selfish to want all thirty one million of those guys all for yourself? Aren't you satisfied to allow some of us to have a relationship with a small number of those gay guys, and keep, lets say, the other thirty million? Honestly, I don't think even I could use a whole million, even if I tried!
What makes you so righteous to presumably issue the gay permit to who YOU decide deserves it? Why are you the one to decide who gets that permit? What if one of those gay guys decides, "hey,. I'm not gay anymore! I prefer women." Are his feelings not worthy of getting out of the club? Isn't he ultimately the one who should decide who he wants to sleep with and what makes him happy? Is it alright for him to get out of the club, and turn in his permit? Why should he have to check with you, the "gay grand puba"?
If I decide to sleep with men only, women only or men and women, honestly, I don't want it to affect your mathematical chance of having a relationship. Maybe your jealous that, even though I've only "locked up" a few guys that could be available in your gay pool, you still have nothing. Thirty nine million, nine hundred ninety nine thousand to one.. The odds just aren't enough in your favor, are they?
I won't tell you who to sleep with. I'm going to be kind, I'll only need less than a million men for myself over my lifetime. I'll leave the rest to you. I think that's more than fair.
Somehow, I think you'll still be home, reading my blog, wondering why you're sitting alone, reading about my life. Why am I able to garner the attention of the men that you simply haven't been able to?
It's simple math. 6.798 billion people in the world. US has 307,958,000. And yet there you sit..being a bitter and mean person rather than going out and using the odds to your advantage.